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ADHAM AL-FARES

Engineer turned philosopher, husband turned seeker, father turned teacher, Adham Al-Fares writes only what he has actually lived.

Adham Al Fares
The Journey

The Man Behind the Message

Born in Jordan in 1958, Adham Al-Fares pursued engineering before embarking on a lifelong exploration of psychology, philosophy, relationships, and the human condition.
His quest for understanding led him through decades of study, observation, and deep self-reflection, seeking answers to life's most fundamental questions.
This journey became The Eleventh Commandment.

Journey

A LIFE DEDICATED TO UNDERSTANDING HUMANITY

Five milestones, one relentless lifelong search for truth, real love, and freedom.

01
1958

Born in Jordan

01
1958

Born in Jordan

02
Engineering Years

Boston's Northeastern University

02
Engineering Years

Boston's Northeastern University

03
Self-Discovery

Twenty years devoted to psychology and philosophy

03
Self-Discovery

Twenty years devoted to psychology and philosophy

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The Trifecta

Development of
Soul, Ego, Intuition

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The Trifecta

Development of
Soul, Ego, Intuition

05
The Eleventh Commandment

A philosophy centered on unconditional love-acceptance

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The Eleventh Commandment

A philosophy centered on unconditional love-acceptance

A transformative roadmap

Core Beliefs

TRUTH

Seeking truth beyond ideology, dogma, and social conditioning.

LOVE

Unconditional love as humanity’s missing foundation.

FREEDOM

Liberation from fear, ego, and separation is the key to true freedom.

Testimonial

Best Love Reviews

Honestly, this book was very different from what I expected. Some parts made me laugh, some made me disagree, and some actually made me stop reading for a minute and think. The whole idea of soul, ego, and intuition really stayed with me.

I liked the way the author talks about ego. Most books just tell you to get rid of it, but here he talks more about understanding it and balancing it. That made a lot more sense to me.

Not going to lie, the beginning is pretty wild and definitely grabs your attention. I wasn’t sure where the book was going at first, but once I got into the Trifecta part, everything started connecting better. I didn’t agree with every opinion, but I enjoyed the read.

The part about unconditional love was probably my favorite. I liked that the author also explains that loving someone doesn’t mean you have to accept bad behavior. I would’ve actually liked to see more real-life relationship examples around this because that part was really useful.

“I Feel… Therefore, I Am” really got me thinking. I’m someone who overthinks everything, so the idea of actually listening to your intuition hit home. I’m still not sure I would trust feelings in every situation, but I get what the author is trying to say.

There’s a lot going on in this book. Religion, money, politics, relationships, ego, love… pretty much everything gets touched on. At times I felt like some sections could’ve been shorter, but I also respect that the author clearly had a lot he wanted to get off his chest.

The more personal parts were the strongest for me. When he talks about his parents and his own experiences, the book feels less like philosophy and more like someone actually sharing what life taught him. I connected with those parts a lot.

I really liked the practical guide at the end. Before that, I kept thinking, “Okay, but how do I actually use this in real life?” The exercises made the whole ego, intuition, and soul idea much easier to understand.

This is one of those books where you’re probably not going to agree with everything, and I think that’s fine. I disagreed with a few things myself, but it still made me question why I think the way I do. For me, that made it worth reading.

The “lackless expectations” idea was probably the biggest takeaway for me. We expect so much from people and then get upset when they don’t act the way we want. I think this topic alone could honestly have had even more examples because it’s something almost everyone can relate to.

WORDS FROM THE AUTHOR

IN TRUTH LIES ABSOLUTE POWER, WISDOM & CONTROL...IN THE GENIUS OF A HUMBLE MAESTRO FROLICKING WITHIN HIS SOCIAL ORCHESTRATIONS OF LIFE.

SELF ME NOT WITH YOUR SELFLESS ATTIRE… FOR MY SOUL, IF NOT FULL OF MYSELF, CANNOT REQUIRE. NOR IN WHAT APPEARS TO BE LESS TO ACQUIRE… THE HEAVENS ABOVE IN MY TRUTH DESIRE.

MONEY HAS BECOME THE VITIATED CURRENCY OF MANKIND. PEOPLE SOLD THEIR SOULS’ MORALS & VIRTUES TO THE HIGHEST BIDDERS.
AM NOT I AM NOT WHAT YOU SEE AND PERCEIVE I AM NOT WHAT YOU THINK I AM HERE TO ACHIEVE I AM NOT HERE TO SHINE AN RECEIVE I AM NOT STUCK HERE JUST TO BELIEVE
I AM NOT MY POCKETS’ WORTH I AM NOT MY SOCKETS’ GIRTH I AM NOT... SAVE MY NAKED BIRTH I AM NOT OF THIS WRETCHED EARTH
I AM NOT A FOLLOWER TO CONFORM I AM NOT A LEADER BUT TO REFORM I AM NOT AN ACTOR TO PERFORM I AM NOT A CREATOR TO DEFORM I AM WHO I AM… ME, MYSELF AND I

AWARENESS IS THE THOUGHT-LESS & TIME-LESS MODUS OPERANDI OF THE CREATIVE PRESENT… THE DIVIDING DIVINE IMAGINATION BETWEEN THE PAST & THE FUTURE.

UNCONDITIONAL LOVE IS INTUITIVE… WHEREAS CONDITIONAL LOVE IS EGOIC IN MY SANGUINEOUS INK I WITHER & SINK TO THINK THAT LIFE IS JUST A BLINK ALL WASTED FOR NOTHING WHEN AT THE BRINK I STOP & RETHINK HUMANITY’S WRETCHED EXTINCT
PHILOSOPHY COMPLICATES PSYCHOLOGY OBFUSCATES INTUITION FACILITATES SENTIO ERGO SUM I FEEL… THEREFORE, I AM THOUGHTS ARE ILLUSION… FEELINGS ARE REALITIES…
PHILOSOPHY COMPLICATES PSYCHOLOGY OBFUSCATES INTUITION FACILITATES SENTIO ERGO SUM I FEEL… THEREFORE, I AM THOUGHTS ARE ILLUSION… FEELINGS ARE REALITIES…
THE CHALLENGE, TAKE… THE CHAINS, BREAK… THE CHANGE, MAKE… ALL FOR YOUR SAKE NOTHING REALLY EVER MATTERED AT ALL… SAVE THAT YOU LIVED & LOVED AT ALL…
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One commandment. No conditions. A philosophy for those ready to forgive their ego and return to unconditional love.

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